Moving on

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I'm wondering if there's men out there who like to talk about stuff (besides Zues )? Men who really enjoy talking about humans and their ways. A man who doesn't get uncomfortable discussing the relationship. A male who doesn't feel threatened if I, a female, disagree with him. That is WH's biggest complaint about me - that I want to talk about everything, and too much. Or am I dreaming about a unicorn?

Guys?

I think WH felt that I became too domineering. But I think it happened in a vacuum. He hates making decisions or plans of any kind.

Well painter, this sums up a lot of things that my WAW complained about as it relates to me. She said I talked to much about the theories and ways of behaviors and people. She did not like that I wanted to discuss our relationship. She said people don't do that. Good relationships just happen and are meant to be. She never wanted to debate or give differing points of view when discussing things.
I was accused of being to domineering because of how I like to talk things out and have strong opinions.

Basically it sounds like your WH is the male version of my WAW and I am the unicorn that you are dreaming about.
Interesting description you have articulated painter, very interesting indeed.