So here we go. I've been struggling to understand my WW and her justification of her A. I understand her "addiction" to the A, however the OM has a criminal record which concerns me. We have a 21 month old little girl that I worry about when she is with my WW. In fact, when I had picked up my D yesterday, my WW had to go meet her S22 with some "things". Well, when she was collecting those "things", her weed pipe had fallen out onto the stand. Needless to say, I was outraged! But I kept my cool and continued to unload stuff. (Yea, I've been her friend and been helping her move stuff and getting her place set up.. now I see that was a no no).. So I've since contacted an attorney and have looked into protective custody (which was denied btw) So now I'm stuck. My WW has suggested she was going to use some photos to falsify abuse, which I again, kept my cool and shrugged it off as it should have been. However my goal has always been to reconcile and prevent a divorce. We have no custody paperwork or separation agreements. I have been supporting her and going way above and beyond to earn her trust, which has only made me vulnerable and appear weak. I have been speaking to her aunt, who is very close to my WW, and is very supportive to both myself and is trying to offer positive guidance to my WW. I have been creating more distance and my WW had been asking for money, and I have started to tell her no. WW wanted to talk about something "important" with her aunt today, however her aunt had told her that she and I have been discussing everything, and WW feels betrayed.. So now I'm at a loss.. I want to be the strong and unwavering H that she can trust, however I worry about my D and the OMs criminal history plus the illegal drugs. I've been in contact with an attorney and am ready to file, and want to express this to my WW, but only to show her strength. I really do not want to!!! HELP!!!!
