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Please give me the titles of the best, bar none, sex 'techniques' type books you've ever read. I have a lot of exploring to do.




Having started with The Joy of Sex in college and bought and discarded plenty of other manuals throughout the years, the two that have a permanent place in our nightstands are Lou Paget's (a woman sex educator) How to Be a Great Lover: Girlfriend to Girlfriend Totally Explicit Techniques that Will Blow His Mind (written for women) and How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man to Know (written for men).

Her books are friendly and tastefully written with line drawings and cover the gamut from kissing to oral stimulation to manual stimulation to intercourse to orgasms to toys and products with ratings unlike most other manuals that seem to mostly emphasize positions (Paget says there are really only 6 basic positions with lots of variations) or esoteric sex techniques.

Reading her books is like listening to a wise, mature, sophisticated good friend. These books can be found at amazon.com (read the reviews there to get an idea of how great these books are) and other bookstores. Have fun.


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