Not much happening today since W's apology for the text. She called me midday and asked if we could refinance her car since we'll need to do that. I told her if she can get financing to remove me from from the loan, I'd be happy to the sign the papers. She asked if I'd go over there with her since I'll need to be there as I'm the co-signer... I said I was busy, and I don't to be there for her to apply, but if she gets approved we can discuss it then.
She then, a few hours later (around 7pm), texted me and asked "Can I stay at the the house tonight or tomorrow night? By Myself?"
I never responded, but I've been clear with her in the past, that she can stay in this house any time she wishes, but I won't be leaving just so she can stay here. She's welcome here, and we can sleep in the same house together, but I won't be "removed" from my house just so she feels all comfy to stay here for the night without me here.
However, I was planning on going out of town tomorrow night. I'm debating on whether I should tell her that I was planning on leaving anyways, so she can stay there if she wants, or just not tell her anything at all, go dark all day tomorrow, and if she chooses to come over and I happen to not be here, then so be it. thoughts?
