Where I work we are changing our benefits package. I only use the dental and vision insurance at work. I know my W needed new contacts because a couple of months ago she was telling me how she was really stretching the use of her contacts. I texted her and asked if she had ever gotten new contacts. She never answered back and it kind of annoyed me. I finally bit the bullet and called her. It's the first time since May 5 I've talked to her on the phone. It was a very pleasant conversation. We mainly talked about our dog (that she took when she moved out) and my D's new dog. Nothing at all was said about our lives. Our conversation was cut short because her office phone starting ringing and she had to answer it.
Anyway, when we started talking I asked if she had ever made an eye appointment and gotten new contacts. She said she hadn't because she couldn't afford it. I was such a lap dog because I told her to make an eye appointment and get glasses or contacts and I would pay for it. I just couldn't imagine my wife using the same pair of contacts for months on end. I even wrote her an email stating what I was willing to do.
Her email reply was, "RDS, thank you". It was later in the day when I started shaking my head on how dumb I was. If I keep bailing her out financially then she will keep eating the cake.
I got a registration bill for one of the vehicles we have. I so hoped it was for my W's car. Unfortunately it was for my truck. She had paid her car's registration 2 days before she let.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day
