Do you want to stay married? I am not asking if you want to continue the same situation but do you want to be married to your H? Think about why ye got together, his good points, if ye can get past current problems can you see ye being happy?There are loads more questions bit in essence reflect deeply on that and be clear what you want.
This is a long draining process that will take all youhave to follow through. You need to be sure it is what you want, to find the motivation to do what is required.
You have found a good place, with loads of people who feel lost like you. Together we take steps towards healing, becoming stronger better people and ultimately a better chance of saving our Ms.
Best wishes. Keep posting
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I don't know if I want to stay married honestly. I think that's why I need to find a therapist. I am unsure if there is enough there to make it worth it. I get annoyed by him, but he's also stuck with me through some rough times with my diagnosis and all it caused. He's reliable, he's faithful, in spite of our sex-starved status. At least, to my knowledge he is. I don't know if it's fair to him or myself to maintain a marriage where we are more friends than anything else. Nor do I think it's fair to either of us to maintain a marriage because of financial hardship or potential loneliness. I don't know how to begin to tease that out.
