I have read it but struggled to relate because I'm not convinced my with falls under the WW or WAW category.
There is no OM, no EA or PA, no anger or bitterness just indifference. She has seeming closed her heart off to me and has lost the ability to feel, she has pushed me away and seems to be doing to same to her own family too. There was times she would speak to her mum 3-4 times a week on the phone for hours, she has spoken to her 4 times in 8 weeks.
No she hasn't nor would she ever. She very much views depression as a sign of weakness and would never admit it.
I have thought that she may be depressed or having some form of quarter life crisis but she is happily maintaining friendships but is pushing loved ones away
No she hasn't nor would she ever. She very much views depression as a sign of weakness and would never admit it.
I have thought that she may be depressed or having some form of quarter life crisis but she is happily maintaining friendships but is pushing loved ones away
I have read it but struggled to relate because I'm not convinced my with falls under the WW or WAW category.
There is no OM, no EA or PA, no anger or bitterness just indifference. She has seeming closed her heart off to me and has lost the ability to feel, she has pushed me away and seems to be doing to same to her own family too. There was times she would speak to her mum 3-4 times a week on the phone for hours, she has spoken to her 4 times in 8 weeks.
I just can't place her at the moment.
Kyle, indifferent to you, distant from close family and friends, sounds very familiar, how sure are you there is no OM?
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
I'm 100% certain there is not OM, in fact out of everything that's been going on over the past 8 weeks it's the only thing I'm sure of.
She is still maintaining normal contact with friends and she still speaks with family just not as often. We had a lot of disappointments leading up to ILYBNILWY, as a couple we just couldn't seem to catch a break.
I'm 100% certain there is not OM, in fact out of everything that's been going on over the past 8 weeks it's the only thing I'm sure of.
She is still maintaining normal contact with friends and she still speaks with family just not as often. We had a lot of disappointments leading up to ILYBNILWY, as a couple we just couldn't seem to catch a break.
Hi Kyler. It' doesn't really matter what your dealing with re WW or WAW in some ways and maybe follow Sandis threads re WAW for now.
Indifference by your W still means she believes the M is over so that the only hard fact you can deal with right now
Once you accept that's how she feels then you need to move forward with your life. And yes that's cr@p but it's reality
Nothing you say will change her thinking and the only chance you have is for her to see your improving and moving forward
We all think our WAS situation is unique because in its details it is. My WW is gone almost two years yet cries all the time and is in bad health , no money , still denying an R with OM even though he's moved in BUT the basics are the same , she's gone and the only control I have is over me
Acceptance is key here Kyler and until you understand that you will not move forward. It isn't easy and no one on here thinks it is , we all still stuggle to some degree but looking for specific answers is only delaying your progress
