So sorry to see you here. For some reason no matter what we are personally feeling we rarely see these things coming. You will have a lot of soul searching to do and many sleepless nights. Do not take all the blame on yourself. It takes two people to ruin a M. BUT be honest with yourself about your faults and work on those. Look at getting some counseling but research who you go to, careful who you confide in, and listen to the good advice you will get on this board.

I wish you the best of luck and feel for you.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16