Are there any consequences you can give her other than D? Once you start that train I imagine it would be tough to slow it down without appearing weak to the WW.
Maybe let the separation play out more first while you consider things? In a way, her moving out and being farther away from you and having less access to you is a consequence in itself... because you're awesome and it's her loss, right? Stay aloof. Keep yourself busy. Let her handle the move and any resulting challenges during the transition herself. I think stuff like that can enforce your boundary without having to go to a D yet, if that's not really what you want at this point.
Very sensible response, thanks! As I said in my other thread, I'm a bit angry right now, so I don't want to act on emotions. I think you're right. This needs time to set in. It can always be discussed at a later date. If there is one thing that I have, it is patience. Just trying to keep all my emotions in check here. Not sure if I said this, but I also started IC to help keep myself level-headed.
If what she is saying is the truth, then there should be no issue with it. I think she's a bit angry with how I'm handling myself. Again, she's looking for anything that will validate her leaving me. It's just not there.
