Wife is movin out...(pt. 3)

[EDF]

Are there any consequences you can give her other than D? Once you start that train I imagine it would be tough to slow it down without appearing weak to the WW.

Maybe let the separation play out more first while you consider things? In a way, her moving out and being farther away from you and having less access to you is a consequence in itself... because you're awesome and it's her loss, right? Stay aloof. Keep yourself busy. Let her handle the move and any resulting challenges during the transition herself. I think stuff like that can enforce your boundary without having to go to a D yet, if that's not really what you want at this point.