Wish I had caught your previous posts about her wanting to meet.
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W: Thanks please let me know as soon as you can
Here is what tipped me off. If she was really wanting to get back together for the right reason.......why the urgency? Why is she pressing for a date/time ASAP?
As you said, you were not expecting this......and if it were genuine, I think you would have been seeing little signs along the way. There is a reason why she jumps right into wanting to talk about the R.
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Not 30 seconds later my phone rang and it was her. She asked why the change of heart. I told her I never really committed to it in the 1st place, I could tell she was kind of panicked.
Yep, here it comes! She's going to try and flip the coin.
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She kept saying how this talk was necessary and how could I not want to sit down with her to deal with matters at hand.
She then accused me of doing this as a way to pay her back for her leaving.
After all was said and done I don't think she really understands where I am coming from.
I suggest her reality is dawning on her and she doesn't like it. I wouldn't be too surprised to learn there is something going on that pushed her to need this speedy little R talk, so she can get back home.
I think you did an outstanding job!!
Even if she's sincere, she needs to work to get you back. Don't make it too easy for her. Oh, and this will go one of two ways, I think. She'll either get really pi$$ed (blaming, accusing, etc.) and go ice cold, or she'll start pursuing you harder. Frankly, I think she'll be pi$$ed and then pursue you when she sees she can't win by being mad. Don't let her manipulate you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
