I'm highly contemplating filing for D myself. I don't want to feel like I'm hanging on while she does whatever she wants. I'm not sure if this right or not.
What is your real motive here? ^^^^^^^^
My real motive is to take a stand and let her know I'm serious about what I view as right and wrong. I don't want it to be viewed as vengeful or retaliatory, so I'm thinking I should give it some time. I'm constantly going back and forth tho. (only in my mind, nothing has been vocalized other than my dissatisfaction with the circumstances)
When I confronted her the other day about her picking up contact again with him, she said "I honestly didn't even think about what you would think". She has a very 'I'm gonna do whatever I want mentality'. I'm sure its a response to the way I've been acting (detach, 180, gal, etc.)
