You know, Dave, I have heard a lot of women express this very thing--that they don't always want it to be a long drawn out thing. I think the men interpret this as the W not being interested but I think the problem also lies in the fact that many women are not comfortable saying, I just want to be f'ed. Kwim? They want to remain proper so saying that they don't want it long and drawn out is as far as they are comfortable going.
Speaking for myself, I need and crave the hard pounding. No nice way to say that, is there! lol After 8 years of marriage, this is still hard for H to wrap his mind around. I do like the soft and slow version too, but it doesn't bring out LUST in me just really, really good feelings.
So it appears that you two are ditching some long held (and erroneous??) notions about each other. Keep it up and for gosh sakes, get her to join another bunko group.
