She sees my being upset by their friendship as me being selfish, and that "its not all about you, y'kno".
Here's the thing.......why would a spouse put any "friendship" above her own husband/marriage? Who does that? I'll tell you who. A wayward wife does it! I'll also tell you it not just a friendship to her.
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I'm highly contemplating filing for D myself. I don't want to feel like I'm hanging on while she does whatever she wants. I'm not sure if this right or not.
What is your real motive here? ^^^^^^^^
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
