I agree with Darkness on this. There is no reason to put a clock on that. Just keep becoming the best you. It will work out best for either way if you do that. Thanks for the kind words about my situation. I do hope things work out as well. But I'm at peace knowing that I can't control that now. I just want to become the man I know I can be
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it