So I'm feeling a bit angry today about everything. I've been working out a lot and I'm taking supplements as well, so I'm sure that might have something to do with it
Anyway, I've made very clear that I do not approve of her staying in touch with her ex (EA guy). "We're just friends" "He knows a lot of people and is helping get my condo together" "He's been over with his wife and kids, I can take pictures if you want"
Not more than 4 months ago, she admitted to having an emotional connection with him, and that some of their contact was not known by his W. Now, all of the sudden, they are just friends, and she doesn't see him in that way. Whether true or not, I see it as a blatant disrespect to me. She doesn't. I guess this is a boundary for me. If she wants to have any contact with this guy, I'm not gonna stand for it.
I'm highly contemplating filing for D myself. I don't want to feel like I'm hanging on while she does whatever she wants. I'm not sure if this right or not.
She sees my being upset by their friendship as me being selfish, and that "its not all about you, y'kno". I'm sorry, but there is obviously something more than friendship here. He tried to pry her away a few years ago. And was RIGHT there, the second we initally split up. And know that she is moving out, there he is again. I'm not ok with this, but I'm torn as to just leave it alone for now, or to be proactive and let her know I won't tolerate this kind of behavior.
