I remember SDA Lady told me (when we got together again for the third time) that she decided to date again shortly afterward our breakup 'cuz her friends thought it would help her get over me...but she said that all she was doing was looking for another Whatis. She said she would compare them to me and they always fell short, she said "I realized that there is only one Whatis"...she stopped because she didn't feel she was being fair to the men she was meeting and it wasn't helping her. So, I agree with you. Jumping on the next horse to forget the last isn't a really good strategy. I immersed myself in photography...and now I'm dating a camera lol.
