dood - you've provided great advice since I started on these forums. awesome dood. It's quite funny how when we read these stories that other people are going through, they can put us in a place where we don't even understand what's going on. Most of the time "outside looking in" provides a much clearer view of the big picture, but my corpse wife really threw both of us for a loop on this on HAHA.
betterm,
I was totally floored by the "kids" comment that you got from your wife. So much so that I said "through" instead of "threw." I can remember, that at the time, I was thinking of "Alice in Wonderland" and "Through the Rabbit Hole." Just when I think I've got a handle on WS affair fog thinking, I'm given a reality-check.
Anyway, it sounds like you survived and are doing well. Good for you! I hope you have a wonderful day!