I was sort of kidding about "rushing out" to get one today. It's just that I can "feel" that we are on the right track and that I've finally found the correct mix of things to work on in myself. Truthfully, my W would probably feel bewildered right now because "my purchase" of it would seem like whopper-pressure. As a matter of fact, I need to just stay cool and let her make purchases like this. A couple weeks ago, we were at friend's house with other couples and the women were hanging out together. By the end of the evening, it was obvious that they were going to organize an "adult pleasure products" party. Yesterday, a woman neighbor came by and they asked me to leave the kitchen because they had some "secret girl plans" to make. It's obviously for this party. This neighbor has been a tremendous help to us. She is recently divorced from her "first love" and at 42, with no experience, she is now going wild and trying to learn everything she can about sex and technique etc. More important than sharing her discoveries with my W, she is asking my W for advice and "drawing her out". Like I said before, we used to be very kinky before marriage.

Anyway HD, you are right. This would be putting way to much pressure on her now. Some more C sessions, having her read PM, developing a better "sex language" will need to precede this type of deal. I can see that she is really trying now to "mentally" change her wiring about sex.


BTW. Wouldn't it suck to have your W get her libido back and then befriend a vibrator instead of you.


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