Out of In house S- Start of two homes (10)

[vise82]

Hey Roist.

Yes good advice, about getting angry and holding resentment. This is difficult to shift the thoughts as now I don't see her or interact. I feel what ever connection there was it is gone, replaced with an anger as everything I do is a reminder that she left me.

Hey Fogg,

I get what you are saying. It is not a good frame of mind to be in. Yes I have been thinking its temporary. That there is a silver lining. I am ignoring the reality. Its amazing how the mind works to protect itself from pain.

I will try to focus on me. I am finding that I am wanting to find someone to replace W to fill in the gap she has left.

This is all helpful right now. I don't want to use energy thinking about her.

I can see where I need to step up is getting things done. My kids rooms need to still be set up and painted, mattresses bought, need bike helmets, clothes organized. the list is long.