Good point about the "doing", "being done" and "fcking" from PM. I think for a long time I wanted validation that I was a good lover...so I had a whole routine of working upstairs, working downstairs, then doing my best to make sure she had the big O...because I knew I always would.
The whole concept that sex can be "doing", "being done" or "fcking" makes a lot of sense. Depending on the mood and what's happening...it doesn't have to be a giant production. Sometimes it NEEDS to be "fcking" because that's what both people need.
When I got the Liberator...my WAW for really the first time ever told me that she wanted me to take them back because there was NEVER anything wrong with ML...it was great...it's just the frequency wasn't high enough. That was a huge boost to my ego...but I also think she's overlooking the fact that sex needs to grow over time...and the Liberator should (in theory) help with that...
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu
