I don't have much time to post, but I have been reading through his thread as you are so kind to post to mine.
It is so clearly evident that you are a kind, loving, HIGHLY intelligent and insightful woman. Clear as day.
You, however, have the same affliction I have, which I have been trying to overcome. You are tying to your self worth to how you believe others perceive you. May it be your ex, or whoever on the board. You are afraid you aren't being nice, or thoughtful. Youa re worried sooooo much about what others think, and clearly, people think highly of you.
Not everyone will agree with you in life, or even like you, but that doesn't define you. That isn't what makes you a good person or supplies your self worth.
You are an empath, just like me, taking on others feelings, feeling as if you might be the cause of them.
If you read my latest post, I realized digging so deep all the time and trying to improve, improve, improve has taken a toll on me. I will be the first to recognize and admit a fault and want to work on it, but doing that for so long, I never stopped and took the time to see the beauty in the work I have already done and just appreciate me for who I am in the moment.
Please take the time to appreciate who you are right now. Focus more on your positives than your self perceived shortcomings. Maybe we can both find some beauty there.
Hi Ginger,
I have read many of your posts on many threads and I have always valued your wisdom and kind heart.
When I read your recent posts on your threads this week, I felt compelled to connect with you. When I read you were an ICU nurse prior to having to juggle the consequences BD and D, I knew immediately what speaks to me about you and I feel I have sense of what touches you about life and love. I have had a number of friends who have worked in your field and mostly peds...WOW Ginger.
You feel so familiar to me as a person, I think as someone I would likely want to know more about, but also I see myself in you, the empath, the in in between girl, girl in recovery from attempting to fix herself too much. I have moved in and out of those roles, titles and prisons over a lifetime.
I love the title of your thread Ginger, it is time for Peace. For both of us.
Thank you for stopping by my place Ginger, I so appreciate it.
