Stay strong, betterm. That teary eyed visit and the 'kids' txt are headscratchers to me though. Not sure what she is thinking there. It does sound like she's still connected to you and these are weird attempts to get some kind of reaction.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16