Wonka, I think I make the piecing more zig zag than it needs to be. It seems to me that someone that takes longer to get to that stage would be in a better spot after having time to really DB. Whereas I over react to what my W does or says, am still very much emotionally attached, basically I've only approved my GAL activities and have more self confidence than I did.
My W has her midterm test on Thursday, so we weren't able to go to MC this week due to all the study time, but we have an appt for next Tuesday with a level 3 Gottman therapist. And I'm ok with you holding my feet to the water, you've helped me get here and I'm sure you and Sandi2 don't wanna see me fail now. I really can't thank you two enough.
Ps - Truth be told, when you first came to my thread I thought you were male also, I guess the username just comes across that way.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized