yesterday she asked if she could come over to discuss this coming weekend. i denied her first request, due to me being to busy. a little later she makes a second request for later in the evening. and i accept. we discuss weekend child care, etc. and then she asks, what are you doing friday night. i tell her what im doing ( jiu jitsu from 530-7. she says, well, after that do you wanna come with me and the kids to a festival (carnival, fair) what ever you guys call it in your own area. i accept the invite. she then says, im not ready for a relationship yet, i still need to get OM out of my head a little more before i can commit.
ok, what ever
then tonight, i come home from jiu jitsu (see a pattern here) and there is a grocery bag hanging on the door handle to my apartment, filled with containers of food with a note that says enjoy, with her nickname on it.
she knows that i get home at 815 from class. im waiting until at least 915 to send her a thank you text. which will probably spark a conversation.
this is a first for this type of behavior. we only live one mile apart. but dang. to ask for a (totally non committal non date , date ) followed with food......
