But I thought the point of this site was to 'bust the divorce'. There's plenty of self improvement programs on the Internet.
No site is going to be 100% successful. Nothing we can advise or you can do can force her to stay if she doesnt want to. The advice on this site does two main things:
- teaches you how to avoid doing things that will drive her away - teaches you how to become a person only a fool would leave
None of us can help it if she is a fool.
That said, the DB process is s...l...o...w. If situations turn around, it usually takes months, maybe even years. The benefit is that the lessons you learn last a lifetime.