the stockdale paradox. i'm trying to change my mindset and apply this. thanks SH

"You must retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties.

AND at the same time…

You must confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be."

Me: 48 WAW:40
T:14yr M:12 yr
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BD 2/2016
WAW moves out 6/05