Thank you. Again. You're right, when she breaks down I don't need to say anything. I should've kept that in my head anyway.
As for validating, I think I'm doing pretty well with it. I Don't expect any thank yous or anything, and hope she sees what things will look like down the road. I feel like she's just staring at tomorrow, and trying to live in the EXACT moment. It really hasn't fully hit home for her.
I need to do more non-verbal validation I think.
You may not be Miss Sunshine, but you're helping me. Thank you. Too bad you can't grab her by the arms, shake her and say WAKE UP! She needs it, pretty badly.....
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.