Out of In house S- Start of two homes (10)

[vise82]

Hey

Just making a note that W just emailed me. Was the most nicest email with a hello greeting and a thanks and her name at the end. This is the first time in a long time she has emailed me like that.

She is asking about days that I could look after the kids for her on her days because of a work thing that is on Oct.

That is so far away, just reinforces that things are not likely to change anytime soon. Also that she must have looked at a calendar for months in advance and worked out the days she has them.

Also she wrote in it that her family is trying to do the wine tour that we did last year. Saying HER family as in I am not included as HER family. And doing something that I did go to last year. They couldn't do something new?

Its all salt in the wound.

I am not going to reply.

She will be at soccer and I can tell her I will need to look at my calendar and let her know.

I am feeling anger right now. I want to tell her to fukc right off.

Its bad enough they are doing the same thing as last year knowing I wont be part of it but to ask me to look after the kids on that day which is my no kid day drives me nuts.

The best thing I can think of is to take the kids to something so amazing that she will feel left out. I need ideas.