I think that we should keep this thread up high by trying to find "any" good thing. This will help us to recognize (at least once a day) the things that are actually right in our relationships.
My offering is that my W and I had a simply nice day yesterday after all that C and R talk. I enforced a family dinner last night too in which I used all my Gottman communication skills on my W and D5. While the 5 LLs are good, I think my sitch will benefit more from the communication skills.
Also, after reading tim's post, he reminded me that I might have accidently left a plate out (remember what my wife's requirement is...pick up after yourslef). I went down, washed it off and put it into the dishwasher only to notice that it was full of clean dishes. Yeeha, I had an opportunity to do an AOS. She is really recognizing these little things because I've never done them in the past. We'll see if this fills her tank with anything.
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
