Thanks Sandi, that's a big help. She's recognized her selfishness, or at least that she believes that's what I think. She definitely does not behave nor make decisions like the woman I married. And, you're absolutely correct. Her emotions are even weirder than mine.
I'm trying not to trust her words, and her actions are still nuts. She's not going to start D proceedings, she can't afford a lawyer and whenever it comes up she asks me about how it works. I think she's still looking at me as plan B, which turns me off so very much.
I'm def sticking with the DB method. This group has helped me immensely. I'm just trying to join a support group for emotinoal support, and to physically talk it out with people going through similar situations.
Thanks again Sandi. WW keeps having to convince herself her actions are right. It's really getting difficult not to just give up on the M myself....
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.