...the start of something: papers?

[PacLove]

That is a great attitude to have regarding to that.
Keep it up!

I haven't snooped in over a week and it's been 100x more peaceful for me.

Cbt, I know you struggle with this, so if it makes you feel any better... the "day I stopped snooping", was also the day I threw my mountain bike in my truck, and went from place to place riding around where I thought she may be hanging out with OM... so, ummm, I'm not the best either. but, it was that night, that I decided to stop snooping. We all struggle with it, I guess you could say that was my rock bottom... i realized, 'this just isnt' right'... <sadface>, but betterm has come out aheaad since then!

not snooping definitely makes things a lot more peaceful... the curiosity is still there daily however and that's the toughest to get rid of "not knowing". So here here to stop snooping!!

I've pretty much stopped all snooping to confirm OM presence, but there are other little things that still get me (ie seeing her presence on IM, or FB, or what she's watching on Streaming video) these are hard to avoid though unless I disconnect from her on IM/FB and stop sharing our streaming accounts with her.