But ... honestly, the more I think about it - 'mandated MC' - that won't work. MC never works unless both parties are there voluntarily.
Oh, you are correct! I just thought that sounded kind of odd about what the court would or wouldn't mandate, since I have heard differently.
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Honestly I feel wronged, like someone who was wrongly accused of a crime.
You were wronged, IMO. As I previously stated, I've seen almost the identical story posted on the board.
FWIW, I was a WW and this board helped me in turning myself around. I have stayed on the board b/c of the influence it had in my life when I was a confused, frazzled, unhappy, very resentful, and disillusioned woman who felt completely dried up and dead on the inside. My marriage survived and we are still together today. So, I hope that is encouraging to know that a WW can find her way back.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
