When we first split (when I left to go live at my Dads in October), after she changed her mind and wanted me back home, it immediately went back to that. I was trying to convince myself that I was more caring now, but looking back, I got nothing on her end, and I should never have moved back in. But I'm done dwelling on the past, that's another thing I'm changing about myself. Well, trying to laugh
I am sure glad to hear you see how that doesn't work in a MR. Makes you kind of wonder the real reason she wanted you back in the house, doesn't it? You were the one worry about how to make everything honky-dory for her. Hummmmmm........yes, I could see that be her motive.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
