Anyway, I only say this to say that I think she may be getting her "feelings" back, she is being more playful and receptive, still no sexual activity, but we are having fun..
Personally, I encourage the couple who is piecing to do exactly what you've said above. After so much stress and dealing with all the extreme emotions, they need as much fun together as possible.
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So we ML last night, awkward awkward awkward. Eventually she pulled me to her, and I said I don't know what I'm doing (I wasn't sure how far she wanted to take it) and she replied oh yes you do. It was awkward because I didn't want to push her into it, but at the same time I really wanted to.
First time, yeah the awkwardness...... I get the feeling that the awkwardness may have began in you, feeling a lot of pressure and not wanting to push.....images of the A trying to crop up, etc. Gee, what's to be awkward about?
When she said it may have been too soon, I get the feeling she meant too soon for you. You know she can read you like a book. After all, she was the one who finally pulled you to her. Maybe you were holding back too much and she read those vibes, and it made her feel a little awkward in return. IDK, just guessing out loud.
Next time, maybe be a little more "take charge" or assertive, and not hold back as if you are reading her to see her reactions. I think the fear of rejection must be almost paralyzing for a man. ((hugs)) Anyway, just a suggestion. I am certainly no Dr. Ruth, or a Mrs. Johnson, either.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
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