Waw, she is in love, need advice/support II

[Bear007]

Often times, the W will put the spot light on whatever she can find to make the H appear guilty of the same thing she may have done. She will accuse and blame, and blow it out of proportion. It gives her a sense of justification.

Stay focused on your goals, and whenever she digs to find whatever she can to pin on you............just shake your head, give a small laugh, and move on. You are not required to give an account of nonsense.

Thank you for this, this are my thoughts also.

Another issue that has been growing lately is her time on mobile, it has grown to addiction, where she literally cannot take her eyes off phone (facebook, Instagram, youtube, wotewr).

I know in this digital society we are all to blame for this, but from the moment she wakes up till she falls asleep there is a phone connected to her arm, and this has bad influence on child - I have found them several times last week - each on her own device.
Tried talking about the issue, she did not hear a word... took few pictures, confronted her about influence she has on child, but she is just in her own world now, does not care how it influences anyone.

Her plan to get a yob until end of school year has also failed (9 more days to go), she did not divorce as she promised in February, so everything she does is on hold, unfortunately she is holding me and child as hostage.
(just a reminder - she still lives in same household, does not have a job and all her living expenses are paid by savings(I earned in last 10+y))

I mean, yes - I can do things everywhere but home, because when I start work on something while she is at home (and she is ALWAYS at home (except when in gym) ) she is there to tell me that I am doing it wrong, or that she needs to use that room/appliance I am using.

I try to ignore her and try to finish my job, but somehow it disrupts me and I quit.

I learned I am much happier when she is not around, because for that full hour or so I get so much house-work done.

To sum it up - I am a hostage of Facebook addicted want-to-be-ex-wife.