Our sex life was DOA for years. She had let herself go in the looks department (long story) and with my resentment towards her I just lost all desire for her. My D told me a couple of times it hurt my W's feelings that I never wanted to make love to her, but I didn't care at the time.
So if you had a do over what would you do about the above? This is all about her looks? I am not buying that - sorry.
Are you working now? I am unclear about what you wrote above?
