From a DB perspective, I definitely don't feel I did anything "wrong" during that situation. I knew if I ignored her texts for long enough, she'd force the issue and show up at the house at some point, I just didn't think it would be so soon (the same frickin' day as I got the D papers).
I think she came over with intent to have a quick "talk", but when I didn't open up to her at all, didn't ask anything about her decision, etc... she quickly backtracked and probably decided it wasn't a good idea to come over. The whole thing last all of about 3 minutes before she started tearing up and showed herself out the door.
Every time in the past I'd been excited to see her in these passing by's. This time, however, I really wasn't. I wasn't rude, but since receiving papers, maybe it's different. I felt an inner "i don't care" or "disrespect" towards my W. She's made her decision, and her text basically says "I have chosen to be happier in my life without you in it." And that's a painful thing to hear someone you love say. So I guess it's all adding up, I don't know.
I was going to at least wait the 72 hour window before responding to anything from her, and now, unless I see some window of opportunity that's better for me, I'll probably just put it all on hold until I meet with me L again on Wednesday of next week... 7 days of basically no contact? Hmph, I dunno.
