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Just keep POSTING and one other bit of advice from Wonka
that I totally agree with.

Get DR/DB book. Keep this to yourself. DO NOT share this book or this site at all with your spouse. It is your playbook and not to be shared with the "opposing" team.



Keep the DR book and DB site very close to your vest.

I've got the DR book. It took a few extra days to get it because of an Amazon snafu.

The W left so she is not at the house so there is no chance she will see the DR. I'm seriously thinking of getting the DB book as well.

If our marriage survives I think it will be stronger than ever. Her leaving was probably the best thing to happen. I knew there were loads of problems and I wasn't willing to change to make the marriage work because I didn't think it was worth it. Her leaving has really opened my eyes to what *I* need to do to make the marriage work, because I now know I want it to work.

I'm willing and trying to change and GAL. I'm an introvert so I'm pretty happy piddling around the house not doing a whole lot. It's times like this where my introverted nature is hurting me. I don't have friends close by so I'm been dealing with this alone for the most part. I try to leave my D out of it.