Just remember at some point in time STBX will have to find a job. I had the same feeling and now don't care when or if that will happen. The D is a process and the time will come where the STBX will have to face reality.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...