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[rich4j]

thx....the ups and downs of this dance

Weeks are fine...then tough weeks.

She continues to put me in a bad light in front of our daughter which is my biggest challenge.

I am struggling with that I am going to have to support 2 households and work my butt off and also co parent. I am not as good as my wife with planning stuff for our daughter as she will remain in the direct neighborhood, doesnt work for now, and has time to plan stuff for her during the week etc.... I don't.

I have to figure this out as I feel that my daughter is slipping away from me. I have to cool my jets in front ...I keep thinking she sees me as the bad angry guy as my STBX is all smiles around her and then throws daggers at me with her around, and my daughter sees this and unfortunately I think sees me as the bad guy hurting mommy

Anyone have this horrible situation and a way to address it with the kids? I won't have to put up with this after July hopefully at least in the same house but it is killing me. I can't lose my daughters confidence in me...it will crush me