Like I said I'm absolutely not even entertaining the idea of someone else right now. My focus is purely on saving my marriage and reuniting my family under 1 roof.
It is difficult because my W is so adamant it's over and that all love for me is gone but I need to remember that it's only been 7 weeks since BD and there is a long road ahead.
KyleR,
I recommend that your focus be on you, making yourself happy, becoming the man that you should be, and healing from the pain you are experiencing. This is your best hope for an opportunity for your W to see changes and perhaps be interested. I say this, as I see many LBS focused on the WAS and MR and this is where the behaviors that drive them further away happen. It takes 2 for a MR. It only takes one, to become a better person and better potential partner in a MR Go become the person only a fool would leave.
I also wanted to commend you for posting and lending support on another thread. This can be therapeutic and helpful to you as well as others.
Be well today my friend.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
