Count me out for the "nice guy"... I am a fix-er who got angry with my xW when she was ireesponsible (which was about once a week). My only nice guy trait was providing for her, I worked hard to provide and made sure she was pretty spoiled. I took someone literally with a child's mentality and spoiled them, what could possibly go wrong?
My focus is mostly on codependence, I have it something fierce!
I know what you mean about keeping up with threads... There are only 3 I follow and feel like I spend hours a day on here.
