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I've been told that as far as the OW is concerned, they do it "without emotional attachment". In my case, H has even told me, out of his own free will, that LM is so much better with me. And that he's been on a "cold spell" with OW. Do I believe him? Probably not, but it's nice to hear it,




OMG, I think you might be married to my ex-husband. He said those EXACT words to me while we were separated-but-having-sex. ::shudder::

On the other hand, I can relate to what you're going through right now. "Separation sex" can be fantastic, since there isn't anything else getting in the way like it does when you're together on a day-to-day basis. Just don't be misled into thinking this is how you're going to get him back. I eventually went back to my now-ex and, 18 months later, found out he was still with the OW. And guess what? We were only back together a few months anyway before the great sex ended and our real problems were sitting there waiting for us again.