Jellyb, my beautiful friend. What gives you the impression that you're not intellectual?
I read your posts to others and I think to myself: how does she make her advice come off so palatable and beautiful and touching?
Me, I know I can sound curt at times, despite my best intentions.
And you always give such sound advice. My beautiful friend, you are wise and kind. These are classic values that will never go out of style.
Jdks
One of the most beautiful women I know, inside and out and damn funny too!!
I miss you on the party bus!! But I see you have made a met a whole new set of party people here and they love and admire you as much as I do.
I feel aggressive in my post, like you a feel curt, and blunt and generally feel unkind. I would never had intention of hurting anyone's feelings and the possibility that I just might, is too much for me sometimes.
While I am kind and generally warm, I have terrible patience and issues with intolerance. I worry too often that these negative qualities trip out of my mouth. It's never my intention to hurt someone with what I am saying quite the opposite.
Maybe I am far too apologetic for my own good. Meh it's me. I wish there was some kind of financial points incentive on apologies I would be a millionaire and you and lovely Kid could come to NZ for a break from ex, the inlaws and she-devil.
Much love my friend - im still reading your sitch if not posting