" Developing trust in a relationship os like putting marbles in a jar. Add a marble when you reveal something that makes you feel vulnerable. If that person betrays a trust...take a marble out. The strength of the relationship over time is judged by how many marbles are in the jar."


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012