Hi Blueboy just chiming in.

I do get it, same thing with my W. After coming down on my W , i decided any family moment is a good moment. Its about the kids and i get to show the her the man that i am.

Most of the time at these things i am being more social and chatting with other people and if its my son's event make sure hes having the greatest time of his life. I am determined to have a good time and usually end up not spending the time with W at these family events.

Im not ignoring her, if she hangs around me or speaks to me im pleasant and genuine keeping in good mood. I just dont prioritize her.


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.