Detachment, anxiety and the end of limbo

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My dear Phoebe. My heart breaks at the thought of the sadness you re going through.
Be kind to your self and let it flow as needed. There will come a point that all of the tears will dry up. It will come, because you are putting in so much work to care for yourself and your well being. You are an example for many here that you can still push forward and do some heavy lifting to heal, in spite of the challenges.

I will find some additional material for us to chuckle at, learn from and grow with.

I have been a little off of late, and feeling kind of numb. Kinda stuck in a routine that I know must end, but the normalcy of it makes me feel at ease. I know that there is much to be done and go through, but for now I will take it as it is.

My goal is to get a learning plan and follow it. Get out and create a new social life. I hear there are many mid 40 single folks out there that like to mingle. I just have to find the gathering place and watering hole I imagine.

I am here to support you sweet Phoebe. I will share my thoughts as you go through the legal process. The things I would do different, and the things that I find are working now.

Sleep well, that will help you.

((((((((Phoebe))))))))

We need a new challenge to distract us. I will think on this and come up with a good idea.