Thank you, I truly appreciate your advice and it's all good. I guess it would be pretty silly to think H would answer me with, "yes W, I dapple with drugs here and there. Sometimes when I have S in my care". I know instincts and gut feelings count, so I will keep my eyes and ears open. H has made some pretty dumb choices, but doing that while having his S would be pretty far out there for him. My instincts don't lead me to feel S is in any danger when with him.

Good news! Teacher answered saying it was unusual for S to be late like he was that day.

Thank you again for your input. It always helps to talk and think things out here. And yes, so much of their behavior is so bizarre and different from their normal state. Hawho, you live with it everyday. While H lived here, I truly believed he was on something most of the time. Even FIL, a retired cop, asked me if I suspect drugs when this first went down .... Again, eyes and ears WIDE open.

Have a good night smile


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
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