It sounds like you have made some significant progress, NYGal, and I am happy for you. Remember, you are the prize and you are in control of how things go forward. Definitely keep taking things slowly. Your W is a lucky woman and I hope she remembers that every day.

Keep us posted. It's very nice to see good news hereabouts.

(((NYGal)))

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16